to get strung along over a long period of time with the
implicit notion that a great partnership will be the reward for showing commitment. then at the moment of the anticipated union, a betrayal in epically cruel fashion takes place. leaving the loyal party feeling devastated while the other runs off with another 'sexier' partner. the
betrayer pointing to the logical nature of "the decision", while completely ignoring the
abject cruelty of it's delivery.